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Succumbing to Sixty

  • January 19, 2017
  • By 50 Shades
  • 39 Comments
Succumbing to Sixty

It’s time to face up to it! I’ve been in denial for quite a while now and as the time is fast approaching (in 2 weeks time to be precise), I have to finally accept that my fabulous fifties are over and I’m going to be sixty. OMG did I really say that out loud!! With a lot of reluctance and maybe some kicking and screaming, I will be succumbing to sixty.

Where did this last decade go? I keep asking myself. It only seems like yesterday that I was planning a 50th birthday celebration and secretly being mortified that I was turning this age. How did I get so old? I don’t particularly feel it, except for when I experience a few aches and pains in my body, I forget something important or I have to pee every 5 minutes. I feel fine – truly I do!

The other dilemma is do I change the name of my blog to 60 Shades of Age? Nah, it just doesn’t have the same ring to it! I think I will leave the name alone (not that I’m going to still pretend I’m in my fifties or anything!)

I spent a good deal of time poring over photos from the last decade and trying to put them in chronological order which was a huge challenge. Some of my older photos have no dates and aren’t in the nice neat folders that I put them into these days. Even my passport was no help as I renewed it in 2013 and I threw the old one out.

As I reflect on the last decade, I do notice some subtle changes in my appearance (although my hair colour and hairstyle are pretty much the same), and I certainly have undergone many other changes, such as change of life, becoming an empty nester, change of career and changes in social groups.

Yes I do look older, I have gained some weight and I tend to sleep a lot more. The joys of ageing! However the biggest change in my fifties was quitting my job and travelling full-time around Australia that gave me a new found love of photography and travel blogging. It also resulted in me changing my career from being a Bookkeeper to a Web Writer.

Here are some the highlights of the decade of my fabulous fifties:

2007

Pearl Harbour, Hawaii

  • Working with World Tour of Surfing as a Financial Assistant
  • Our son commences his Electrical Apprenticeship
  • My 50th Birthday Party
  • Travel to Perth and Margaret River
  • Trip to Hawaii – Oahu and Maui
  • Our daughter graduates from High School and is accepted to do Medicine at University

2008

Galway in Ireland

  • Our daughter takes off on a Gap Year to Yorkshire in England
  • We visit our daughter in England and travel to Ireland, Amsterdam and Paris
  • We travel to Adelaide and get aboard The Ghan train for a trip through the centre of Australia and spend a few days in Darwin

2009

12 Apostle on the Great Ocean Road

  • A trip to Melbourne to the Australian Open Tennis and a road trip along the Great Ocean Road in Victoria
  • We travel to Phuket in Thailand for a friend’s 50th birthday
  • Our son celebrates his 21st Birthday

2010

Phuket, Thailand

  • Holiday to Phuket and Koh Samui, Thailand
  • I commence work as a part-time Bookkeeper with a private company
  • My Dad celebrates his 80th birthday

2011

Grand Canyon, USA

  • A road trip with my Mum and Sister-in-Law to the North Island of New Zealand
  • A trip to USA visiting San Francisco, New York and Las Vegas
  • Our daughter’s 21st birthday
  • My Mum turns 80 years old

2012

Blue Mosque in Istanbul, Turkey

  • Our son departs for an indefinite overseas trip
  • Our daughter moves out of home to go to Med School in Brisbane
  • A Holiday to Vietnam and Krabi, Thailand
  • Meet up with our son in Turkey and travel together for 3 weeks.
  • Commence my blog 50 Shades Of Age

2013

Seminyak in Bali

  • A 2 week Caravan trip along the coastline of Northern NSW
  • Our son returns from overseas
  • A week in Cairns and Port Douglas
  • A mother/daughter holiday to Bali

2014

Camping in Pemberton WA

  • We embark on a 7 month caravan trip around Australia
  • Our son moves out of home
  • I commence work as a part-time web writer for hotels/resorts
  • We convert the downstairs area of our home into an Airbnb rental
  • Our daughter graduates from Med School

2015

Onboard our Caribbean Cruise

  • Our daughter commences work as an Intern at Nambour Hospital
  • Many trips to Coolum on the Sunshine Coast to see our daughter
  • A 5 week trip to the USA visiting New Orleans, a 21 day Caribbean Cruise, Boston and New York.
  • My husband’s 60th birthday
  • 2 weeks travelling around Tasmania in a campervan

2016

On top of Queenstown Hill in New Zealand

  • A 19 day cruise to South East Asia visiting Singapore, Malaysia, Brunei, Vietnam, Cambodia and Thailand
  • A 10 day girl’s holiday to Bangkok and Krabi in Thailand
  • A week in Queenstown New Zealand
  • We get a new Lab puppy called Stella
  • Our son commences his own Electrical Contracting business
  • A 6 day media familiarisation trip to Northern Japan
  • A week at a luxury resort in Bali

With my 60th birthday looming my main focus now will be keeping healthy and fit, continuing to improve my blog, seeing my children happy and settled and embarking on lots more adventures and trips to foreign places. After all they do say that 60 is the new 50!!

This post is part of the Lovin’ Life Linky with a Lovin’ Life Team of the “ageing positively” kind who are as keen as I am to promote the Lovin’ Life mindset. The Lovin’ Life Team includes:

Johanna from Lifestyle Fifty
Deb from Debbish
Min from Write of the Middle.
Leanne from Deep Fried Fruit
and of course me, Kathy from 50 Shades of Age

LINK CODE FOR 19 JANUARY 2017


By 50 Shades, January 19, 2017 Kathy was a 50 something year old when she started up this blog 4 years ago, but has since turned over another decade and is now 60. She is married with two adult children and lives on the Gold Coast in Queensland. She enjoys living life to the fullest and loves to keep fit and active by maintaining a healthy diet and exercising regularly. Some of her interests include reading, movies, travelling, cooking and blogging! Kathy works part-time as a freelance writer but her real passion is travelling and photographing brilliant destinations both within Australia and overseas and writing about it.
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50 Shades

Kathy was a 50 something year old when she started up this blog 4 years ago, but has since turned over another decade and is now 60. She is married with two adult children and lives on the Gold Coast in Queensland. She enjoys living life to the fullest and loves to keep fit and active by maintaining a healthy diet and exercising regularly. Some of her interests include reading, movies, travelling, cooking and blogging! Kathy works part-time as a freelance writer but her real passion is travelling and photographing brilliant destinations both within Australia and overseas and writing about it.

39 Comments
  • Jo Tracey
    January 19, 2017

    You’re looking fit and fabulous. Sending you an early happy birthday.

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Thanks Jo. Sometimes I feel my age and at other times I feel 21 again! :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Deborah
    January 19, 2017

    Oh wow Kathy, I love this. I might steal the idea for later in the year when I turn 50 but I’m wondering what I’d put in each year.

    You’ve done and achieved so much during this time. (Mine would be… lost 20kg. Gained 30kg. Sort of thing!)

    So much to show for those 10 years of living (and the 50 before that)!

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Steal away Deb! It was a challenge trying to remember what I’d done in the last decade! Thankfully my photos prompted my memory. I’m hoping for a lot more “living the dream” in this next decade. Fingers crossed! :)

  • Anne
    January 19, 2017

    The last 10 years have been great! I hope you have a wonderful birthday.

  • Michelle Weaver (@pinkypoinker)
    January 19, 2017

    Well you certainly made the most of that decade. By the way, sixty is the new forty. You look great and I have a feeling your next decade will be even better for you.

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Becoming an empty nester, having the freedom to travel and have more “me time” certainly assisted in my fifties being fabulous. I like the idea of 60 being the new 40, but I think my ageing body is telling me otherwise! Lol :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Sue
    January 19, 2017

    What a wonderful reflection Kathy and I feel such a connection with you in many aspects. I am in 60 in August and I have just adjusted my website name to Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond because no way am I not going to Sizzle once I’m the big 60! You have a great attitude and that is the key. We can all wallow about getting older and waste our lives or we can just forget about our age and make the most of life. A wonderful and uplifting post. Thanks for the link up as well. xx

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Yes I am succumbing to sixty, even though I’m not entirely happy about it. I did Yoga with my 26 year old daughter this morning and felt the 59 years that I am! You obviously can empathise with how I feel. It’s like the sand in the hourglass is rapidly falling and there are so many more things I want to achieve in my life before I get too old. Let’s hope my next decade is a good one. :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Min@WriteoftheMiddle
    January 19, 2017

    Kathy you don’t look anywhere near 60! What a great decade you’ve had in your 50’s – WOW so much awesome travel! I’m still early 50’s – phew. Not quite got my head ready for the next big one yet! lol I’m sure your 60’s will be just as fab as your 50’s! Hope you celebrate big on your birthday in a couple of weeks. :-) x #TeamLovinLife

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Thanks Min, you are too kind. I am planning a small dinner out for my actual birthday with family and a few close friends. I’m not one for big parties or too much fanfare. My 60th birthday gift is the fantastic Mediterranean Cruise and 3 weeks in Italy that we have already booked. I can’t wait! :)

  • Jan
    January 19, 2017

    Kathy you haven’t changed a bit and you look amazing -fresh faced and full of energy and enthusiasm. Oh and the 60s aren’t all bad – I should know! The best is still ahead of you 😉

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Ha ha! Thank you Jan – I think you need glasses! I’m happy to hear that the best is still ahead of me. It is much better than the alternative! :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Leanne|crestingthehill.com.au
    January 19, 2017

    You look fabulous and you’ve accomplished so much in the last decade. The sky’s the limit for the next 10 years isn’t it? My 50’s are quite different – and my kids are several years older than yours, so mine had finished uni and were embarking on careers, getting married and mortgaged (and having a baby!) in my first half of the 50’s. You inspire for how then next half will look xxx

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Thank you Leanne. I don’t really feel that much older than when I was fifty, however I have noticed that I get tired easily and I’m not quite as flexible as I used to be. I hope I’ve provided some inspiration for women in my age group. :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Denyse Whelan
    January 19, 2017

    This is a wonderful decade you have captured and recalled! Many congratulations to you. I am only 3 years away from 70. THAT is scary!! Are you still working in NSW public education? I was until 2009 and was a principal in the early 2000s. Cheers, Denyse

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      It was a wonderful decade full of a lot of changes. Hopefully the next one will be a little calmer! I worked for Education Qld in admin for about 10 years off and on. It was very hard work but rewarding. Being a principal in the public education sector is a huge responsibility. Well done! :) #TeamLovinLife

  • jodie
    January 19, 2017

    What fun to see the last 10 years this way, Kathy!!
    It only gets better, and I think that’s because we have the right perspective on life!!
    Happy Days!!
    jodie
    http://www.jtouchofstyle.com

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Thanks Jodie, it is definitely about the right perspective. I’m hoping and praying to be doing what I do now well into my 70s at least! :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Jo
    January 19, 2017

    So interesting and intriguing to see the highlights reel of your fifties! What a roller coaster of a wonderful decade it’s been! I hope the sizzling 60’s are equally as wonderful and may you stay fit, healthy and as beautiful as ever :)

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Thanks Jo. I’m going to attack the next decade exactly as I tackled the last one! The one good thing is that I have more spare time to take care of myself and also to travel. Bring it on! :)

  • Janet Camilleri
    January 19, 2017

    No way are you turning 60 Kathy! I hope my next ten years from 50 to 60 are as filled with wonderful memories (especially the travel) as yours have been. You are an inspiration x

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Yes I’ve got a good ten years on you Janet! You can definitely make your own memories and have a blast in your fifties and beyond. Thank you for your kind words. :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Nikki@Wonderfully Women
    January 19, 2017

    Who cares what the numbers say! Love your decade of memories.
    I just succumbed to 52 so have 8 years to ponder the arrival of the 60. xx N

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      I love your attitude Nikki! You are right, 60 is just a number and I’m definitely going to tackle it head on and embrace it for all that it is! :) #TeamLovinLife

  • budgettraveltalk
    January 19, 2017

    I enjoyed reading about your last travel packed 10 years and there is more to come. Bring it on.

    • Kathy
      January 19, 2017

      Hopefully yes Jan. The main thing is to keep fit and healthy so that I can continue to travel and see all the wonderful destinations on my bucket list. :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit
    January 20, 2017

    Wow. What an amazing decade. I’m actually looking forward to embracing my 50s. My husband is already there and he arrived kicking and screaming. But it’s blog posts like this that make me excited to be hitting another decade of adventure.

    I can’t believe you are turning 60. There is absolutely no way you could possibly be turning 60. 50 maybe, but not 60.

    #TeamLovinLife

    • Kathy
      January 20, 2017

      Thanks Leanne. You are too kind. When I reflect on the past decade it has been pretty amazing with so many changes. Although I’m not entirely happy about turning 60 I am looking forward to whatever the next decade brings me. :)

  • Lyndall @ Seize The Day Project
    January 20, 2017

    Wow Kathy – what a fabulous decade you’ve had. Age is just a state of mind. I try not to focus on the numbers and just enjoy life. It looks like you’re already doing exactly that! Happy Birthday (no number!!) :) #TeamLovinLife

    • Kathy
      January 20, 2017

      Age is a state of mind Lyndall. I’m really trying not to focus on the fact that I’m turning 60 but family and friends keep reminding me! I hope to be doing a lot more loving and travelling well into my sixties and seventies. :)

  • Carol Cameleon
    January 20, 2017

    What a great post and well done you for quitting the day job to go travelling. Brave but great move! #LovinLifeLinky

    • Kathy
      January 20, 2017

      Thanks Carol. It was a big move quitting our jobs to travel, but one that paid off for both of us. We were burnt out and disillusioned prior to setting off and the trip turned our lives around for the better. :) #TeamLovinLife

  • Sydney Shop Girl
    January 20, 2017

    I have come away from reading your list of amazing achievements looking forward and not fearing my fifties!!

    SSG xxx

    • Kathy
      January 20, 2017

      That’s fabulous! Fifties were a piece of cake. It’s the sixties I’m fearing! :) #TeamLovinLife

  • All Around Oz
    January 20, 2017

    Kathy….you look amazing! And definitely no where near 60! Your obvious love for life and adventure shines in your face so you will never be old!

    • Kathy
      January 20, 2017

      Gee thanks Mel! Some days I do feel old, but at other times I think and feel like I’m 21 again. The trick is to keep the mind and body active no matter your age. :) #TeamLovinLife

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